Stan is a 25-year-old straight guy.
“Are you in the military?” I asked him when I first met him.
“I was,” he said. “How did you know?”
“You seem very regimented and you say ‘Sir’ a lot,” I explained.
He laughed.
“Anyone ever tell you that you look a little like George Bush?” I asked.
“Yes sir,” he said, standing straight […]